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Because of a technicality we ended up not having Love’s kids this weekend. Which actually worked out okay but Love ended up having to work part of the weekend anyway so they would have been stuck with little old me.

Sometimes my stepkids really seem to like me and sometimes they really seem not to. I’m not sure what the deciding factor is on the weekends. What exactly makes them like or hate me, but it gets frustrating trying to figure out which it will be.

Anyway for the moment I didn’t have to spend my time wondering what it was I’d done to bring them either happiness or misery. This step parent gig is hard regardless of what anyone tells you. There are a lot of people with great knowledge and useful tips and suggestions but the whole thing is just always a little more difficult than you imagine it would be.


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